Here's our Hitched bride blogger, Ileana, to tell us about the next step in her planning process-- choosing the bridesmaids!
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Ileana: Who to ask was a no brainer for me. Though I never was one who dreamt about my perfect wedding or planned it out before I was engaged, I knew exactly who I wanted to be in my bridal party as soon as Bobby popped the question. I'm still working on so many details of the wedding but figuring out who I wanted in my bridal party was one thing I was lucky to not have to stress about! My bridal party consists of the some of the most awesome and amazing people I know and I'm sure they will provide countless hours of laughter, smiles, and fun-- from the wedding related parties to the stressful moments to the big day itself.

My sister Yvonne takes the title of maid of honor, obviously. She is one of the most honest people I know-- which I'm sure has its pros and cons when it comes to wedding planning, but I wouldn't have it any other way! Her opinion matters so much to me and I just love her to death.
My other maid of honor [yes, I know, slightly unconventional but I could never choose between the two!] is my best friend of nearly half my life, Krystin. She is like a sister to me and is just fabulous in every way. We were sort of fated to be friends-- my mom and Krystin's aunt were best friends growing up, and none of us realized it until years later!
Kara, Casey, and Ileana @ Casey's wedding in Nicaragua
Two of my other bridesmaids are my cousins, Kara and Casey. We have been inseparable since birth and I couldn't imagine my wedding without them next to me.
Rounding out the group is Angela, Bobby's unbelievably cool sister. I am so excited to have her as my sister-in-law!
So then came the question of how to ask these lovely ladies to be a part of our wedding. It actually didn't end up being hard to figure out, either! Bobby and I were shopping around the hotel's convenience store the day after we got engaged when the idea came to us. I looked up from some Hawaiian knick-knacks to discover a rack of all sorts of Hawaiian themed calendars. Instead of a calendar featuring the beautiful scenes of the landscape, we chose one that was a bit more humorous and quirky, and suited our personalities and the laid back feel of the wedding perfectly! I got six of them-- one for each of my bridesmaids and one for myself as a keepsake.
Next, we came across a funny post card with six Hawaiian ladies on it and photoshopped "Bride Ileana" and the names of my bridesmaids-to-be on it. I wrote them each a personalized note on the back, asking them to be in our wedding and joked to them that they should use this calendar as a countdown to the big day [I didn't know the date yet, otherwise I would have circled it for them!]. We mailed them out to everyone as soon as we got back from Hawaii.
I feel so fortunate that each of them said yes and are more than happy to make the effort to be there for our wedding [more about the location to come!]. They are already going the extra mile to help me make our wedding perfect and I am so grateful for that. I cannot wait to have them all standing by my side when I say "I do" to the most incredible person I know. It just makes it all that much better!
[All photos courtesy of the bride]